When someone
you love becomes a memory,
that memory
becomes a treasure.
When someone
you love becomes a memory,
that memory
becomes a treasure.
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On the following pages are some
thoughts and
comments about Hawthorne which were offered
by her family,
her many friends, and the
many people she
touched.
If you would like to add your thoughts about Hawthorne or remember her here, you can do so by following this LINK. |
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You are Hawthorne You are Hawth You are a fantastic cook ...a kick-ass drummer ...a gifted artist ...a writer, a mechanic, a photographer, a lover of all cats, an incredible friend, a sister, a singer, a daughter, a girlfriend, a best friend, a beauty to behold, a fighter, a hero and so much more Many
knew you, many
loved you. |
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your strength is an inspiration a gift undeserving your beauty is breathtaking rendering me absolutely inadequate in your presence your energy overpowers me in your absence it warms my soul while i wait to feel the glow of your beautiful grace shining upon me once again sending
you so much
love today, hawth. |
YOUNG
ARTIST HARD AT WORK
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on image to see some of
her art
| Hawth -
You have always said intense things, casually blasting us far deeper than the mundane, forcing truth in to the moment. That's my favorite thing about you. You will always be an influence upon me. I
love you. |
| I
only met Hawthorne briefly when we went into W+K with our daughter, Jan
Meyer. Hawthorne was there, and we had no idea that she was so sick.
She seemed like a lovely girl with lots of
enthusiasm. However, her impact on Jan has been enormous. Jan
talks of Hawthorne often, and how bravely she has let go of so much
future while still making the absolute MOST of her past and
present. Speaking as a parent, I can only imagine what her
family
has been going through, and my husband and I join in wishing you peace
and love with the memories of your beautiful daughter.
Sincerely, Wendy Best 09.29.2002 |
 At Pho Van |
 Alcatraz |
 Port Townsend |
 Before Chemo |
| A beautiful
light shines in another place now.
Bless you on your journey, Hawthorne. With
Love, |
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longtime sun shine upon you, all love surround you, and the sweet light within you guide your way on. Traditional Blessing --
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| I
knew of Hawthorne for several years but only met her briefly. She was
right there and in full command when my son Jamie had a terrible hiking
accident. A vibrant, strong gal who will be missed.
Mary
Pat Thompson |
| The
first day I met Hawthorne I fell in love with her. I knew instantly she
would be an important person in my life. Anyone who knew her could not
help just digging her. She had a self-assurance and a gorgeous light
inside her that many of us can only dream of. She LOVED life. And she
was adored. I had a great time showing her around Europe when she came
to stay with me in Amsterdam. We went to Venice together and had BIG
fun. After dinner one night we were stuck in a thunderstorm complete
with torrential downpour...and we were far from the hotel. We decided
not to wait it out in a doorway but to run all the way to the hotel in
the storm...and it was a long distance to run through the labyrinth
that is Venice. Leave it to Hawthorne to have a flawless sense of
direction. We made it back, completely soaked, lightning splitting the
black sky, laughing our asses off. It is one of many memories of my
friendship with Hawthorne - and it is one of my favorites. I
know
that now she is the brightest star in the universe. And when I look
into the sky she will be shining brighter than any other star there.
And I will always remember her light.
Jill
Tomlinson |
Hawth never
really liked this
picture (taken at McDuff's), but I always did
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I met Hawthorne almost 15 years ago. She was a teenager and came to
work at Nature's. I wasn' t quite old enough to have been a mom to her,
but I was too old to really be a peer. But, as all of you know who know
Hawthorne, she was always able to cross over beautifully into all sorts
of categories, classes, ages, whatever. She made an immediate
impression with her incredible smile, crew cut, and confident spirit.
My contact with her would come and go throughout the years. She played a bit of a matchmaker with me and my now husband, who also worked at Nature's. So thank you for that Hawthorne. What an incredible blend of gifts she gave to all of us! I remember one time she house sat for us. My mom called from Arizona, and she answered the phone, "telephone". My mom got such a kick out of that, she would still ask me about the "telephone girl. I loved Hawthorne, and feel so lucky to have known her. My husband and I had dinner with her last month. I will cherish that hug. Leslie
Jones |
| I'm
not even sure how to express how much Hawthorne has influenced my life.
I was instantly impressed with how she could be so adult and so
incredibly youthful at the same time. That happened when she was just a
teenager. And again just a month ago. She was able to see exactly how
things were and also just how they should be, and she would tell it
like she saw it. This ability of hers was a major force in getting my
wife and I together. This is just one of the ways she touched our
lives. I remember at one point Hawthorne was moving out of
town.
We hadn't seen much of her but I felt a great loss, like having your
kid move away from home or losing your best friend. At the same time we
were very excited for her and knew our paths would cross
again.
Last time we saw Hawthorne, about a month ago, she was the same as
always - positive, insightful, creative, a vision of strength. The
world was before her. Tonight my wife and I cried for hours after we
read that Hawthorne had moved on again. Hawthorne, you are truly one of
the most incredible people I have ever met. Your energy will continue
to enlighten our world. You will never be forgotten.
Love,
David Wolf |
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| I
hardly knew Hawthorne, but her impact was huge. I admired her
energy and her positive attitude. I couldn't help but have a
smile on my face when I was around her. Even now when I see
her
pictures on this site, I smile as the tears fall. She was a
fabulous human being and although her life was short on Earth, I have a
feeling she lived larger than many who make it to 100.
Karen
Greene |
| My
memories of Hawthorne are those of seeing the pride in her mother's
eyes...of sharing October birthday dinners with her and her mother...of
seeing her brilliance and energy...of hearing of her great
achievements...of viewing her artistic talent...of seeing how she
touched the lives of those around her. My heartfelt thoughts
go
out to her family and friends, to all of you who had the chance to meet
and know Hawthorne. She leaves a special place in so many
people's hearts.
Brandi
Stewart |
| I
miss you already Hawthorne. I'm so lucky to have met you. It is a sad
day on earth, but a joyous day up in the heavens. The angel Hawthorne
has already formed the band. God Bless Hawth, her family and
friends.
Becky
Johnson |
She knew the
way
| Dear
Hawthorne, My dearest memories... you as the most beautiful baby.... such a loving cousin and friend to Ian and Alex. teaching your auntie what a REAL martini should taste like ! (Sapphire of course). Sunday morning as I looked over the Siletz Bay and thought of you, an eagle flew overhead. Your spirit flew with it. Love, Auntie
Chris |
| Dear Hawthorne,
I'm so proud to have been your friend. Some of my earliest memories feature spending time with you. Even at age six you had the most amazingly creative ideas and plans. I was always in awe of your sense of adventure and your limitless imagination. I look forward to seeing you again in my dreams. Darcy
Roane |
| Hawthorne,
You saw the world so innocently and spoke so honestly, may we all be more like you. I will miss you. Shari
Eiesland |
Boat ride to
Alcatraz
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| I
just heard about Hawthorne's illness and recent crossing to the other
side. I was Hawthorne's babysitter for about 3
years. I
used to call her Hawk and now my son Ian's nickname is Hawk.
(nicknamed by his grandfather - but what a coincidence)
Hawthorne was the brightest child I'd ever known. She was willing to learn anything and learn it FAST. The first person to ever solve the Rubix Cube for me and she did it in record time. She was a vibrant personality, even at age 6. Her mother and father truly adored her which was proved by their devotion to her. Although I have not seen her in years, I feel the pain of her passing. I understand the loss of her friends and family and wish that I could help them through this most difficult time. Just know that she is in a much better place, free of pain and burdens. Marianne Ferguson
(Johnson) |
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Just know I love you Hawth. -- Jennifer Smieja 09.30.2002 |
| Hawthorne,
You were a Joy to be around.
Jo Marie
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| You were
such a beautiful star. I will never forget your
light. Always, Tess
Bethune |
| There
are no words to describe the sadness. Your daughter is one of the most
beautiful, optimistic, giving, funny, tough, smart, talented,
inspirational, loving, caring and wonderful people I've ever had the
opportunity to know. I will take away so much from how she lived her
life - so alive and wondrous, full of fight and enthusiasm. She never
lost her innocent, childlike wonder. I will appreciate my life, my
family, my friends every day. I will never forget her, and I will
cherish the memory of the person she is for the rest of my life. Thank
you for giving her to us. If you ever need someone to talk to,
reminisce with, have lunch with or anything at all, please do not
hesitate to call me. My heart goes to you both, more than I
can
express in words.
Love,
Melanie Myers
Mattison |
Photo from
wieden+kennedy Wall
Gallery
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for larger image
| Hawthorne,
I
walked over to your Mom's house on Sunday. It rained the
entire
time. It felt so good and clean. I rounded the
corner to
the house and the sun peeked out. I know it was
you. It
rained the entire walk back to my house. It was
great. We
will miss you so much and we will see you soon. I am proud to
be
your cousin. You inspired me to be a better man.
Jack,
Tina, Gabriella,
and Gianna Hanselman. |
| Hawthorne, I bought that sewing machine we talked about and made a wizard costume for Zach this weekend. I almost made one for you too, but realize that you've always possessed the character of the wizard & have never needed the publicity... Wizards inspire - - - Wizards transcend - - - Thanks for being your magical you to my whole family and to everyone around you. Love, Alex Flagg 09.30.2002 |
| You were the
drummer. You kept the beat. You picked the song, and the rest of us
were along for the ride.
I remember meeting your dad, it was a brief meeting, one of those tours of the agency, he might not remember, but we shook hands and looked each other in the eye, and I thought, "So. This is what a great dad looks like." Then I thought, "Holy Jesus, he's MY age." Now I have two little daughters, and I hope and pray they grow up like you did. With wonder and love and in constant awe of the world and appreciation of things most people take for granted. bob
moore |
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Hawthorne developed her goofy side at an early age (with some encouragement) |
| Hawthorne,
we only shared a few moments when working together at W+K, but I think
I was laughing the entire time. Thank you for touching my life with
that contagious smile. I'll always remember.
Mike
Mitchell |
| Frank,
as I was thinking about growing old and hitting the infamous age "65"
on our mutual birth date, I gave thanks once again to God for allowing
me and Bob to remain here for another year. I thought I need
to
find a really "appropriate card for Frank. I am sorry I was
not
aware that Hawthorne was ill and sadder to learn of her recent
death. My memories are of her in the earlier years of her
life through your stories of the joy she brought to you even
as a
young child and her pictures you always were displaying.
Perhaps this poem will give you a view that God does work with a definite purpose.
"God
saw she was getting tired, a cure was not to be,
Sue
and Bob Zimmerman |
| I'm
a friend of Jill Tomlinson's and only met Hawthorne once.
But, I
thought she was a wonderful human being. My heart goes out to
you.
Joann
Bianchina |
| I
was very saddened to hear the news. It's been several years
since
we worked together at W+K, but I never forgot your smile and your
spunk. You have a light that shines so bright. You
made a
difference in so many lives. You will never be forgotten.
Tove
(Petty)
Durbin |
| Dear Mr.
Hunt,
This past July 4th our daughter Jennifer and her friend James Thompson came home for a visit. They had spoke of Hawthorne and her struggle with this terrible illness. What was talked about more than the disease was what a wonderful girl she was. It was evident this cancer would never be bigger than her life. Jennifer, who didn't know her well, said Hawthorne would always be an inspiration to her. We assured them Hawthorne would be our thoughts and prayers, as she was throughout the summer. How proud you must be as a dad to have raised such a gem of a daughter. How fortunate for her to have a mom and dad to carry her from birth to death, and to do it so wonderfully. To say we were saddened to hear of her passing is an understatement. The love her friends have for her is evident. But even people, like us, who really didn't know her feel her loss and grieve with you. May you find strength in knowing you were good and loving parents. She reached hearts in Chicago. Please give her mom our deepest sympathies. Sincerely, Andy
and Mary Jo Frydl |
Port Townsend
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| i
will remember Hawthorne as the center of her father's universe and i
will continue to think of her every time i read good night moon to sam
as i hold on to him just a little tighter.
maureen
stadter |
| I
am an alumni from PNCA and was a new student her senior year, so I
didn't know anyone at the college. But one of the things I remember is
Hawthorne's 1000-watt smile. I can't imagine the brightness of the
smile or the woman dimming. Certainly she is shining for all of us at
this moment. My thoughts and deepest sympathy go out to her parents,
family and friends.
Sincerely,
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Who
is this girl Thinking my thoughts of you Curious
girl Thinking my thoughts of you Inspirational
girl Thinking my thoughts of you Enduring
girl Thinking my thoughts of you Spiritual
girl Thinking my thoughts of you Enduring
girl Thinking my thoughts of you With
Love, |
At Starbucks
| Hawthorne,
Although your presence in our physical world was way too brief, rest assured your spirit will endure as your ever growing circle of friends will carry it for generations to come. We must remember that we can still continue our conversation with you with our thoughts and prayers without speaking or writing a word. Peace & Love, Russell
Hollenbeck |
| Thing's I
remember about Hawthorne:
Swimming until our heads were full of water Monopoly games that lasted for two day's Tromping in the mud and rain laughing and being silly until it hurt Robin
Bodwin |
| When you
were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life in a manner so that when you die the world cries and you rejoice. -- Native American Proverb This proverb rings so true for our Hawthorne and her beautiful life. God she is so amazing. Love
to all, Liz
Sullivan |
| On Saturday I was in St.
Louis, and I was so
very sad I decided to return to Portland that night. I since have learned of Hawthorne's passing. I am comforted knowing I was near I am amazed that I was at the MAX Transit station near her Mothers house at or near the time she passed. Hawthorne, to know you is to Love you Jean-Pierre Veillet |
An artist
with opinions even at
two
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| Forwarded
by Maggie Brenneke:
Hello Maggie, When you first meet Hawthorne you obviously recognize you are in the presence of beauty and are in the company of someone very interesting. She was not two dimensional and was certainly not "in the box". She sparkled like a star and smiled like Chester Cheetah from Cheetos. What a joy to have known her. The one thing that moved me most about Hawthorne was how she made me think. Unfortunately it usually lasted for only a few hours after I saw or talked to her, but I believe I am better off for that brief stint of enlightenment than not. She made you question things, anything, yourself, the status quo, or just things. I am going to try and keep that for myself, try to duplicate that experience because I don't naturally see the way she viewed the world. I will miss that more than anything. I feel it is important to try and see things the way she might. I am sad we don't have direct access to her anymore, but I feel honored to have known your cousin Hawthorne. I learned from Hawthorne and hope that can be said of me someday. Maggie, smile like Chester, think like Hawthorne might think from time to time, and continue to be your wonderful self. Love JJ (Jeff Johnson) |
| Angie,
thank you. Hawthorne's illness and passing is the worst thing
I
have ever heard. I wasn't really close with her, but we had
lunch
a couple times, and an occasional beer together.
Here's a
Hawthorne story.
One
weekday afternoon, Jed and Kim were struggling to find a babysitter for
Oak, and I was their last resort. So I agreed to drive up to
their house on Hewitt after work that day in their vehicle (as you
know, I didn't have one while I lived in Portland). Jed left
me a
set of keys, and told me where I would be able to find the car in the
lot next to Dekum. When I get Now, I had a dilemma. Do I emasculate myself and ask Hawthorne, clearly one of the beautiful women at the agency, and someone I very much wanted to impress, if she could drive a stick? Or do I just let Oak take care of himself? So I sheepishly asked Hawthorne, and of course she knew how to drive a stick and of course she would do me a favor. So we make it back to the car in no time, and I realize that even though I had been to Jed's twenty times or so, I really didn't know how to get there. So Hawthorne not only had to drive me to my friend's to baby-sit, but she also had figure out how to get there based on my obscure, unhelpful clues. Of course, we got there without any problem because Hawthorne knew where to go. And she never brought it up again--she just did me a favor and left it at that. That's my lasting impression of Hawthorne--beautiful, strong, and kind. I'm sure she has had the same effect on most of the people who crossed her path. Angie
Vieira on behalf
of Larry Gies |
| I
met Hawthorne on a trip to Japan when I was 14 years old.
Hawthorne and I were room-mates at an art camp in Sapporo and had such
a great time together! I felt so hip and cool with
her! I
loved her enthusiasm, her laugh, her curiosity. Hearing of
her
death made me so sad....Her memory makes me happy.
I Love You Hawth! Erin
Neill-Liddell |
At McDuff's
| On
New Year's Day, 2000, I went to brunch at Hawthorne's house where she
made one million crepes and many pounds of bacon. I felt
lucky to
have been invited, as I had only lived in Portland a year and didn't
know her very well. She was so warm and spunky and put me at
ease
instantly. And the food was delicious.
At the time I was living in an apartment in northwest and unsure of how long I would stay there. A conversation with Hawthorne's great friend, Danielle Flagg (who had recently bought a house), made me realize I should buy a house while in Portland, even if I eventually moved back to New York. The next day I began looking and in a week I had found my house. A week later I met my future husband and we are about to celebrate our first wedding anniversary. I won't be moving back to New York. I always think of that brunch, which was lazy and magical and lasted until dark. It was the beginning of the best part of my life. I attribute that turning point to Hawthorne, who welcomed me into her magical world. With
great sadness, and
lots of love, |
| Hawthorne
had one of the all-time great laughs. It was deep and then giggly and
more than anything it was true. If she had a courtesy laugh (which I
doubt), I never heard it. Her laugh persuaded me. To do whatever. She
mentioned going to a drive-in, which sounded nice, but not until we
laughed about it did we decide that it just had to be done. So we went.
Hawthorne was like that. She was up for anything and did everything. I
miss her so much. You're a beautiful spirit, Hawthorne, and I hope to
be with you again. Thank you for shining on us.
Brian
Ford |
| Hawthorne,
I may not have known you as long as others, but the time I spent with
you will bring me joy for the rest of my life. I feel sorry for people
who never met you. Those of us who have lost you at least know what it
was like to know you, talk with you, be close to you and share in your
energy. And that is a true blessing. Even through your illness you
seemed stronger, healthier and more positive than most. You were a joy
to be around. You were brave and beautiful. You created heaven all over
the place. And now they must need an angel like you up there.
I
will miss you and I love you. Thank you for letting me be a
part
of your life. Thank you for being a part of mine. My love and my heart
for you.
alan
charing |
Lord
Periwinkle @ McDuff's
| Warm
Remembrances: The Beastie Boys, cats, babysitting then going up and spending our profit on brownies & Italian sodas (with cream) at Johannsen's (Alameda Cafe), pasta with pesto, lots of laughs, and tons of fun! I haven't seen Hawthorne in quite some time, but I'll never forget the last time I did see her - we ran into each other downtown and it was as if not a day had passed since we saw each other last. An incredible friend, old or new. With the utmost warmth & compassion, Marisa
Hirata
(Eivers) |
| Dear
Hawthorne,
i remember when we and a handful of agency people went out one summer night to watch a meteor shower at the darkest end of sauvie island. the six or seven of us were all on our backs and looking as far away as we could and i remember you saying things that i wish i had said, making me laugh hard and making me happy to be in a place like that with a person like you, you are a very funny woman and i miss you very much. during my three years at wk i know i made you angry a couple of times, i remember this because when i crept up to tell you i was wrong and that i was sorry that you'd accept it and forgive me and thank me. i know that you must absolutely be one the most understanding women to ever have walked this planet. when i was in a rut and needed to switch careers you helped me put together that book that got me my first gig, enabling me to realize a dream i had been dreaming for years. i will never forget that you were there when i was starting over, when i needed help the most. You are a very caring and wise student of the human condition and it's a shame that there are not millions like you, but that is simply impossible. i am very sad and angry that i will not see you again, that i will not be able get that out-of-control-smile i get whenever i see your beautiful face. thank you very much for helping me along my path, my heart and soul will never, ever forget you Hawthorne. i love you dude, bye for now. paul
mitchell |
With one of
her many kitties
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| Hawthorne,
Forthright and luminous, There is a vacuum And the elements rush in to fill a void Transforming the season you've created Our world can hope to inherit your Artistic Certainty Quintessential
Hawth
is I remember you with wings on your back. You
will guide us,
speak to us Todd
Aschoff |
| Hawthorne-
A while ago I was in town from Japan visiting friends at W+K. I was waiting for the elevator. The door opened and three women were getting off. The one with a bald head and colorful tattoos said hello to me. My first thought was how cool it was to be back in Portland and see interesting people...but I didn't want to stare, so I shyly smiled and went on my way. That night you sent me an email titled, "Its me" and the text explained that you were the bald girl who had said hello. I was so embarrassed and ashamed that I didn't recognize you. A few days later I saw you again and you came up to me and gave me a big hug and said it was OK that I didn't recognize you. That's just the kind of girl you were. Turning an awkward situation into something we could laugh about. Thanks. I'll remember that always. LTA
(Lawrence
Teherani-Ami) |
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